Aaah! Help me resist the temptation to snoop for ring order details!

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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535 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Life has very few surprises as we get older. Do you really want to  ruin your proposal – one of the best surprises you’ll ever get? If you snoop, I guarantee we will see a post from you titled “disappointed with my proposal”. Chill out and let him do his thing.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Temple Beth Am/Love is Blind

Don’t do it!  He wants to see your face when you first see it and it’ll be such a sweet surprise for you that you can share together!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

See I would look. I would wanna know what the ring looks like. I however would not look at the tracking or in any way want to know about the proposal. 

Post # 6
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535 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

 

theshannondee:  Most women would.  But what if you don’t like the ring? Then the proposal is ruined because you’re worried about that. 

 

DON’T DO IT, OP!

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  msfreemis.
Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

msfreemis:  I hear ya. But on the flip side I would rather be prepared for an ugly ring than have it flung on me by surprise. To each their own of course. And OP if you LIKE surprises then of course don’t look!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

theshannondee:  For arguments’ sake , lets flip the script and say your fiance is snooping to see what your dress looks like so he can be prepared just in case it’s ugly. Would you not be hurt and and really disappointed after all you went through to build up an epic surprise? (Let’s pretend we’re all traditional and wait for the walk down the aisle for him to see us)

Don’t spoil either of your joy 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

emthebrave:  I have no words of wisdom. I was bad and would casually look for my ring around the house from time to time (I had a feeling it was somewhere!) After he proposed, I later found out that I came REEEEEAL close to finding it twice, but had it not been a combo of him moving it and me not looking real well, I would have found it! I knew what mine was going to look like but if you don’t know…don’t look! You won’t be able to fake being suprised as good! 

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