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Our desired venue wants us to use someone from their list of exclusive caterers but have been (ever so slightly) open to the idea of an OC.  However, there is a pretty steep penalty, 3K, for doing so.

The only reason they've been somewhat open is because 1) we need kosher and 2) I am vegetarian (and so will everyone else on the night of our wedding! score)

So reason for this vent?

I just got the menu from their listed caterer and what do I see? a completly fish, few and far between dairy, vegetarian unfriendly menu!   ACK!!!

Here's hoping I can sway OC to help eat (ha) some of that 3k the venue wants to charge...