Post # 1
So, we HAD decided on “The wedding song” by Angus and Julia Stone, i showed my Maid of honor (Who has been less than interested/helpful in this whole thing) and she said “I heard this song ages ago and i wanted it for mine” and kicked up a big fuss and now i feel like i shouldnt use it even though i love it.
Here is the thing.. she is single so it isnt like she is planning on getting married anytime soon
Would you still use the song?
Suggestions for another ?
Post # 3
@beautifullyboheamian: Ehhh, I think you should still use it, like you said she’s still single. If she really is a true friend then she really shouldn’t mind that u use it. And who’s to say that she might change her mind when it’s her day??
Post # 4
@beautifullyboheamian: I would still use it. Like PP pointed out, if she’s still single she may not even want to use the song anymore by the time she’s getting married.
Also, how many of your guests will be going to both your wedding and hers? I’m guessing since you said MOH and not sister or FSIL that you’re not related, so it would probably be a handful of guests at the most. And really, who remembers what a couples first dance song is anyway, besides the couple themselves. I know I can’t remember what the couple danced to at any of the weddings I’ve been to.