Addressing STDs / Invites in special circumstances…

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
Hostess
8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

For my save the dates, I sent 1 to each residence, per last name. So, for my FMIL’s house, there are 3 last names living there.. I sent one to each [So FMIL, FFIL and FSIL got one, FGM and GPA got one, and FGMA got one as well]. If they all had the same last name, I would have just sent 1 with “The ___ Family”.

Every adult will get an invitation, whether they live at home or not.

Post # 3
Member
3223 posts
Sugar bee

Adults get their own invitation regardless of their living situation. 

Post # 4
Member
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My cousins always included me in my parents invitations. I dont know how proper that was, but thats what they did.

Post # 5
Member
158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

For both my sister and cousin both of which still lived at home with no significant other, i just sent one std and one invite like this:  Mr. And Mrs. Lastname and Ms. Lastname.  

now if they were getting “and guest”, i would have given them their own invite.  For the thank yous, i sent individually by card/gift since they gifted separately. 

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