Advice!!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I wouldn’t contact him.  I think it’s a bad idea.  Sounds like you may be having cold feet.  If I were you, I’d re-examine your relationship with your FI and any apprehensions you may have about marriage before contacting an ex.  What do you expect to happen if you do contact him?  What kind of closure do you expect to get? Will you be prepared to deal if he doesn’t act the way you want/expect?

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nikkimcq:   My gut feeling is that it would be a bad idea to contact him since you’re engaged to marry someone else.

But – check this out:

Four: The symbolic meaning of number Four deals with stability and invokes the grounded nature of all things. Consider the four seasons, four directions, four elements all these amazingly powerful essences wrapped up in the nice square package of Four. Fours represent solidity, calmness, and home. A recurrence of Four in your life may signify the need to get back to your roots, center yourself, or even “plant” yourself. Fours also indicate a need for persistence and endurance. 

http://www.whats-your-sign.com/spiritual-meaning-of-numbers.html

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nikkimcq:  Maybe he represents some kind of stability to you, from your past.  It could point to some kind of lack of stability now.  Not necessarily, though, of course.

Post # 8
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9253 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Also – I believe in paying attention to signs like these from the Universe.  They always mean something and shouldn’t be ignored or overlooked.  I’ve lived my entire life like this.  I see signs and meanings everywhere, in everything.  And I get LOTS of signs, on a regular basis, ever since I started paying attention to them.

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nikkimcq:  Well, there’s your answer!  Your life NOW is representative of the number 4.  And the past should remain in the past.  You already have your closure.  🙂

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