Advice.. Help! Elopement

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

If I was your BM and you told me this, I wouldn’t be mad or upset or anything like that, but I would have to see if it was possible for me to participate in your Vegas wedding. If it wasn’t possible, I would decline. 

I think the only thing you can do is talk to your bridesmaids and groomsmen about this. That’s the only way you’ll find out what they think and if they’ll still be able to be in your wedding. That’s the logical next step, even if it is difficult. 

Besides, things like this happen all the time. If you don’t have the money you thought you would, that’s ok. Just do what you need to do to get married and have a wedding that you’re happy with. If some of your bridesmaids and groomsmen can’t attend, it may be sad, but your goal is to get married; them not being there won’t prevent that from happening. 

If any members of your bridal party can’t attend, but you just really want to have them there, there may be some other wedding options that you haven’t considered yet that will make it easier for everyone to attend. 

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