(Closed) advice – i had a bad weekend

posted 6 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

1. You need to tell him that it’s not your job to “read” him. You are not a psychic.

2. The silent treatment is for 12 year olds.  It’s one thing if he says, “Look, I’m frustrated right now, I need to cool off and be alone for a bit.” But to just not talk to you for the weekend, and then blame it on you – that’s not ok.

3. He needs to be able to handle discussions of finance without freaking out. Have you guys talked about finance and budgeting before? Not just for the wedding, but for life together? Because that’s not going to go away after the wedding.

Post # 4
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@mightywombat:  the above post put it nicely. he is acting like the child not you. dont feel responsible for his actions.

Post # 6
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26 posts
Newbee

Hi

 

Sorry to hear about your fight, arguments suck! My bf also said some things which upset me over the weekend and like you I am still a bit upset. I know for me that if I directly confront him about it he will get defensive and it will cause more arguments. What I find more helpful is to distance myself a bit and perhaps spend a bit more time out. He soon realises something is up and is much more open to discussing it.

Anyway your fiance may be different, just my 2 cents. Remember even the strongest couples have silly fights though x 

 

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