ADVICE! Mother In law hates our wedding!

posted 3 years ago in Family
  • poll: What do I so about Mother In Law?
    Try talking to her - but she is stubborn and never listens : (6 votes)
    32 %
    Be nice and distant ourselves from her : (9 votes)
    47 %
    Invite her to wedding - then have nothing to do with her! : (4 votes)
    21 %
    Do not invite her to the wedding! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1613 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @SkyeC19:  I would suggest loving her from a distance. Be kind to her, keep your wedding planning to those who are loving towards you, and jus tknow that sometimes we can’t be friends with everyone.

    Post # 4
    810 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I KNOW WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE!!! Although not as extreme, my FMIL has been really apprehensive towards me since my FI and I first got together. No reasons behind it, she is a lovely woman, we are just very different people.

    It is really hurtful and makes me feel like crap.

    I say put the ball in her court. Just invite her to the wedding, but don’t push it beyond that. SHe can come or not.

    Other than that, you and you FI together need to make a concious decision to insulate yourselves from the negativity. Negative people will be negative no matter what you do. you cannot control that.

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