- 4 years ago
- Wedding: July 2015
Ok, so my fiance’s sister (20) has had some problems with drugs for the past 4-5 years. She was dating a guy for about a year who helped her get out of her bad habits and stay clean, but they broke up about 8 months ago and since then she’s fallen back into her old ways. She, along with my fiances brother still live at home with their Dad (and now their Mom since she moved in (parents are divorced, but are very cordial) because she lost her job due to alcoholism). In the past few months his sisters drug habit (which as far as I know is now pills, but a few years back was as bad as heroin) has gotten bad and she’s been stealing from the family. The Dad knows there is a problem and that she needs help but for whatever reason has never got her that help.
Well the problem has just gotten a lot bigger…she’s pregnant. She’s pregnant and hiding it. Her best friend called her father and told him, but he, nor any of the other family members have approached her about the situation. I just saw her today and I am in shock! From what we heard she was only a few weeks along…from what I saw today, she looks to be AT LEAST 4 months pregnant! She was in a big t shirt, but her belly couldn’t be hidden. I honestly don’t understand why they are waiting to approach her about it/what they’re waiting for. My fiance kind of disconnects himself from all their bulllshit because clearly he’s sick of it. He’s over his parents not doing anything to better the situation. But I feel like it needs to be brought up NOW! Her and that baby need to see a doctor ASAP.
I was thinking of texting/calling her this afternoon and bringing it up, but I don’t know exactly what to say since she doesn’t know we know. Please help ladies!