Advice Needed bit Immediately

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
998 posts
Busy bee

Would you prefer waiting that year for the ceremony, or would you rather get married legally sooner? That is what it really comes down to.

I’ve got two other questions for you: what is your religion, and what is your fiancee’s religion, and what caste do you belong to? I know that when talking to someone in this dilemma in the United States, their religious beliefs (or lack of belief) would definitely be a factor in how they should get married. I’d say that in a nation like India, where irreligion is more uncommon, that a legal marriage without a religious ceremony would probably be fairly unusual.

I’ll admit that I don’t know how your family’s acceptance of your love marriage would vary by caste. But I know that caste would definitely matter. Regardless, try not to let your family and society make you feel bad about your upcoming marriage just because it was not arranged. Congratualtions on your upcoming marriage, and feel free to PM me if you need more help. 🙂

Post # 4
Member
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@lotoftalks:  If you two really want to get married now and not wait… do it. 

Then again, I don’t fully understand your culture. 

If “what would others say” is the only thing that is keeping you back, I’ll say go for it still!!

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