(Closed) Advice needed for dealing with encounters with the ex

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t think there is anything to do other than to be nice and social with all concerned. If she has never been mean or rude to you, I doubt this is the venue where she will start all of that. Good luck.

Post # 4
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5894 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Kill them with kindness. Also, try not to think about these people as a part of her world. Imagine that these are just people that you are meeting–like a work function. If you have in the back of you head that these people are -*her* people, you will act slightly different. So take a big giant chill pill (and a glass of wine) and try to push that thought out of your head.

Post # 5
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46126 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It is difficult to deal with ex’s but the key rule for me is to behave as I would with anyone elese. That way, if there ever is any scene, it will be their responsibility, not mine.

I plaster that smile on my face, make polite social chit chat and always remember I am there for my SO and his kids.

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