Advice needed – how to prevent gagging with BJs

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2783 posts
Sugar bee

@SadieBee:  what we do is my boyfriend tells me when he’s about to cum so I can deep throat him and the cum goes straight down. If I can feel it in my mouth/on my tongue at all I will gag. Also, I try not to think about it being in my mouth. Or else I gag

Post # 4
279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

What works for me is if he’s on his back and I’m looking down at his hips, the sqirting doesn’t hit the back of my throat but more the roof of my mouth. Any other way and I have the issue you do.

Post # 5
484 posts
Helper bee

I think it’s a mental thing. If you’re thinking at the moment you have sploosh in your mouth. You’re more likely to gag. Try sensitizer gels or flavored lubes. i like the strawberry flavored ones. Good head brand is good. 


Post # 6
842 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@SadieBee:  I’m not really sure what to say other than I just kind of collect it in my mouth as FI comes and then swallow after he’s completely finished and out of my mouth. 

Post # 7
3534 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I agree with a PP, get something flavored and it won’t be so bad. I would think holding it in to spit would make you gag worse, no? LOL

Post # 8
295 posts
Helper bee

Pure romance sells something that helps with blow jobs. I used it a couple of times and it helped some with my gag reflexes. 

Post # 9
10384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I let it hit the back of my tongue instead of letting it go down my throat. Bonus: then you can’t taste it!

Post # 10
4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Just before he finishes, pull back and use your hands only? If you really don’t like it in your mouth, then don’t finish in your mouth.

Post # 11
1241 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I let it collect in my cheek, like between the jaw and the cheek. Then you just toss it back like a good shot, quick and tasteless…for the most part. I almost always try to have a bottle of water nearby to chase away the last of the taste.

Post # 12
5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I cannot take mouth shots. He tells me when he’s ready and at the last seond I stop and let him finish on the bed or the floor. 

Post # 14
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Aquaria:  I agree I do not take mouth shots he gets finished by hand.

Post # 15
129 posts
Blushing bee

I had an issue with this for the first 4 years of our relationship, and it wasn’t until a couple of months ago that I learnt how to do it without gagging!

When he’s getting closer, I lift my tongue up to block my throat. It’s the same feeling for him, but instead of hitting the back of my throat, it goes underneath my tongue and just collects there until he’s done, then I swallow. 

SO really loves that I’ve discovered this haha.

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