- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and gradually I have become so unhappy with him and our relationship. He has an awfull temper which is playing a major factor in this. Also he has a daughter that is 2 1/2 from a previous relationship that I do love, but it isnt a easy situation dealing with the baby momma. Recently I cannot stop thinking about how I am only 21 years old taking care of a child that isnt mine as well as a Fiance, home, and working full time. He has not been supportive, helpfull, or there for me and it has made me realize this is not someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. So I have decided I need to end things. We bought a home that it was put in my name, have share credit card debt which are also in my name, and have a joint banking account (I thought I wsa sooo in love when all this took place and thought we would be together forever.) I have been so afraid to talk to him about breaking up because I have no idea how to sort out all the financial ties we have together. I dont know if anyone else has been in a situation like this that has advice? or ending an engagment when you live with the person? I know in the end I will be happier and have thought about this seriously for the past month, but this is such a hard and emotional experience.