- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
So I just got married a month and 3 weeks ago but we both got promise rings well over a year ago. Well my promise ring got replaced with an engagement ring but he has kept his promise ring as his wedding band (i can count on one hand how many times he has taken it off) the ring was very inexpensive (like $60) and not a very good material. He also works on cars daily and doesn’t take it off so you can imagine how it looks now. he decided not to get a new band because of me getting my ring and after that we didn’t have the money. I really want to surprise him with a new ring for Christmas and I know he would appreciate it so much and wouldn’t see it coming but since we are married now we share a bank account and obviously he would notice if a huge chunk of money went missing. Also we both decided we weren’t going to get each other anything big for Christmas so I’m worried if he will even maybe be upset that I spent that much money..anyway does anyone have any advice as to how I could potentially hide it from him? Or should I wait to get him a new band? I just feel bad because I have a new ring that he worked hard to get me so why shouldn’t he have one too?