ADVICE ON FIANCE BACHELOR PARTY

posted 2 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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6592 posts
Bee Keeper

In theory, I’d be ok with it as long as it was an isolated incident and no sexual activity. However, my fiance has no interest in having strippers at his bachelor party, so who knows if I’d react differently if he did actually want them. I have offered to be his stripper at home (similar to that Friends episode).

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

The part that stands out to me is how he’d rather not have one at all if he couldn’t have strippers. That makes it seem like strippers are all he’s concerned with rather than spending a night out with the boys. No one here can tell you how you should feel as everyone has varying and justified feelings on the issue. If you are totally opposed to strippers then tell him so. If you’re ok with looking but no touching then let him know you’re boundaries you’re comfortable with. He should respect your opinions whatever they might be. 

Post # 4
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Worker bee

FutureMrsBex:  “No one here can tell you how you should feel as everyone has varying and justified feelings on the issue” Perfectly worded. No one could have explained that better.  My marriage broke up because of the bachelor party and stripper.  You need to decide what you feel in no uncertain terms.  And If he can’t agree to that then you need to re consider the wedding.  And if he promises one thing then does another, you need to back out of the wedding even if it is an hour or so before the ceremony.  It will save you a world of heart break later.  Keep us posted.

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