(Closed) Advice on MIA bridesmaids and MOH… Help!?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ouch, that’s a tough one.  I guess I would send them both (separate) e-mails and give them a deadline.  Just say you are REALLY pushing it for dresses and you need the measurements by Monday.  Tell them that you understand if something came up and you hope everything is OK, but if you don’t hear back from them that you hope they can make it to the wedding as a guest. 

This is honestly the only way I can think of handling this.  I’m shocked that these women who are supposed to be close enough to you to be in your wedding are behaving this way.  With friends like these….

Post # 4
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree, the best way to handle this is say “The ABSOLUTE LAST DAY you can get your measurements in is X” and leave it at that.  I’m in the camp that all bridesmaids need to do is buy the dress and show up for pics and the wedding, but they’re even pushing what my boundaries would be!

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