Advice on MOH

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@miss_jess:  How was your friendship before the wedding? Is it the dual weddings that caused jealousy from her?

What exactly was she saying to her husband about you?

I guess I would like to see the whole picture before giving advice?

Did she even say she was sorry for all the trash she spoke about you?

Post # 5
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1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@miss_jess:  So you are a waste of time and a waste of her time? I’m sorry but she would be gone from my wedding and our friendship would be cooled off. I would not want to look at her in our wedding photos.

If it was such a waste she should have stayed home.

Post # 6
Member
11300 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

LOL what a bitch. Tell her to have a nice life and move on without her. You don’t need people–especially a best friend–who tells other people that you are a waste of time and money.

Post # 7
Member
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Dump her. Seriously. What a monster!

Post # 8
Member
957 posts
Busy bee

@miss_jess:  I came to this realization about an ex-bridesmaid of mine. That she was never really interested in my life. I feel like she’d been trying to distance herself from me a long time and I just never got the hint. It makes me feel a little embarrassed, like I looked like a fool every time I would call her up to hang out. I wish I could go back in time and tell myself to let her go. 

It’s a bit different than your situation, but I am no longer friends with that girl. I still think about her often and it still hurts. After 10 years of friendship, it’s hard to just let go of someone. 

You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. You deserve to be surrounded by peopel who actually care about you and want to be around you. 

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