(Closed) advice…we got in to an agruement and he told me we are getting engaged

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Honestly I think I wouldn’t say anything. I think a lot of guys pride themselves in planning something nice for us and I bet he’s feeling guilty for blurting something like that out, out of anger. 

I know that it will be soooo hard to not talk about it, but I think you should wait for him to bring it up.

Post # 4
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Helper bee

I agree, I’d chill out and pretend I didn’t hear it and let him have his time to plan. My Mister is planning on popping the question at New Years as well. Waiting til then is not going to be fun. But it’s doable 🙂

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Unless he brings it up again, I think your BF would probably prefer to at least be able to pretend it’s a total surprise. 

When you feel the need to gush or vent, come here! You’ll find lots of people to sympathize with you here. :p

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

no need to bring it up and when he surprises you (if he is smart, he will do it before New Years now that he told you!), you will be all the more happy you didn’t say anything.  And its not that far off to hold it in!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh man I’m sorry 🙁 I wouldn’t bring it up because he is probably mad at himself for saying anything to you. Just forget about it and let him do his thing. NYE will be here before you know it.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014
Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I agree with PP’s, unless you had your heart set on a surprise, I’d keep hush.

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