(Closed) Afraid my date may offend

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

i dont understand what ur trying to say.are your grandparents getting married too?

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

I think she was trying to say that her Grandparents were married on 9.10?  Maybe?

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

oh,i would think that they would see it as somthing good.i mean immitation is flattery they say…

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

I originally wanted to get married on my grandparent’s wedding day.  I figured it was a good omen, they were married 50 yrs.  If your grandparents were married on 9-10  I think maybe your grandfather would like it?

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t see anything wrong with it.  My dad and his brother were both married on the same day (different years of course) and i don’t think they were bothered by it.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think that it would be a nice honor for your grandmother and your grandfather for you to get married on that day. I do think that you should have a talk with your grandfather though and let him know about your date before you announce it to the rest of the family. Just let him know that it would be nice way to include a rememberance of your grandmother on your wedding day.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would think they would see it as a nice gesture.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

I’m so jealous, I would LOVE to get married on my grandparents’ anniversary date as I loved them dearly and they were married for 64 years before my grandpa died.  However, their anniversary is 12/31 and a NYE wedding is definitely not what I want.  I think your grandpa would be flattered and it might make that day a lot easier for him by passing the baton on, so to speak.

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i don’t think there is anything wrong with sharing a wedding anniversary with grandparents. we are getting married 9/24 which is FI’s grandparents anniversary and they were over the moon when we told them, we are even getting them their own little cake on our day.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It actually sounds like a really sweet gesture, like you’re paying homage to your grandparents’ marriage. Your grandpa might get emotional, but I don’t think he would be emotional in a bad way.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@FutureMrsPolizzi: That is too adorable for words!!

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