(Closed) after a fight…

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

For us things move fast (except a proposal) we tend to only stay mad at eachother for a couple of hours and then when someone feels bad enough they apologise. That’s how relationship works sorry I don’t have any advice

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

So far in my relationship with my FI we’ve never gone longer than maybe 15 minutes being upset with each other.  Usually he will come to me and say, “Why are you so far away from me right now?  Please come here and give me a hug.”  It’s impossible to stay mad at him, lol.

Post # 5
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

After we resolve our issues we make up right away.  Neither of us can stay mad at each other for long.

Post # 6
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615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride's residence

If we have a huuuuuge fight things might be strained for a bit, but Mr. D is far better than I am at letting it go, immediately. We get back to normal by the next day, I’d say.

Post # 8
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1029 posts
Bumble bee

With little tiffs, it’s 10 to 15 minutes. With bigger stuff, it could take a couple hours to a day.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

the last little spat lasted no more than 10 minutes.  it’s usually just not worth the negative energy.  we haven’t had a blow out fight in years.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If we say we have forgiven each other, we mean it and its back to normal immediately.  We dont usually have fights that last like a day or anything.  We only did when i was waiting for a proposal LOL. 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My husband definitely returns back to “normal” quicker than I do- 

Im naturally more reserved and argue arguments happen, it takes a lot to get me mad…. But when Im mad I tend to take a while to chill back out.

My husband usually ends up trying to break the ice first, and whileim usually not mad anymore at that point I still don’t feel like talking a ton, but it doesn’t ever last longer than an hour or so.

If that makes sense 🙂

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

And when* arguments happen 🙂

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@hecallsmelove:   You mean for you to get over it quicker or for him to?  Can you give more details about what your fights are about? 

There are some things that deserve your time to process; it depends on what the argument is about.  If it’s something minor, then let it go and move on.  But over something major, like if he’s being disrespectful to you, then maybe you don’t need to let it go too quickly.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It depends. We are both pretty bull-headed and stubborn, so sometimes neither of us wants to apologize first and it might take a day or 2. Usually it’s just a few hours or even like 10 minutes but it just depends on what “mood” we are in that day or what caused the fight. We always go back to normal as soon as we apologize. 

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