after all the dramas lately…we went shopping

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I dunno but if waiting = threatening 3 months or else, becoming emotionally unstable and insisting on shopping how do you even believe HE wants to get married?

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Very exciting! Early congratulations 😉

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

sweetercheeks:  just going off your post. I don’t know you of course, just reminding that if it’s an uphill battle every step of the way you gotta consider that. And yes I was waiting too so I sympathize with anxiety and hope it all works out for you soon.

Post # 8
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Helper bee

I am a waiting bee also, and I’m pretty sure he has had the ring since mid August. He promised me he would propose by end of year last new years eve right before our new year kiss. In June we went on a trip with friends and he mentioned it would happen by end of summer. I was in shock and this helped push him to finally buy the ring, which I’m pretty sure he has. Comes near the end of summer and I am pestering him as when it will happen. He breaks down and tells me it’s not romantic and special anymore. So I tell him he has til end of year like the original plan. Now I’m worried it may not happen and then what? I love him too much to leave. Our 3rd anniversary is end of Nov and his bday is in Nov also. I now he is not a planners, but I’m hoping it happens then. I know I will be disappointed if it doesn’t happen but I love him too much to ever leave, and I know he wants the same things as me. He just takes longer to be ready. Also I have stopped mentioning anything wedding related a I think it has helped our relationship. I’m telling you this to let you know your not alone. Plus for me reading other’s stories has helped me a lot and given me hope. I hope we are both engaged by the end of year!

Post # 9
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Helper bee

I saw and was following up with your last post. I hope he proposes soon and it works out for you.

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