Post # 1
so Fiance seems to think I’m being silly, but Mother-In-Law wants to host an after party at her house (we are having an afternoon wedding) but we are also encouraging people to come out with us downtown.
I think she should have it the next day so that everyone can attend! I mean…I feel like she isn’t supposed to throw a party on our wedding day that isn’t intended for us to come to and may deter people from going to what we are planning.
Am I being unreasonable? How do you interpret this situation?
Post # 3
@mcklough: hmm, I’m not sure. Maybe she wants the older folks to feel like they have a place to go if they don’t want to party with the younger people?
Post # 4
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
Think it’s better for her to host a next day breakfast, etc. Unless she is looking to invite a different crowd than you are.
Post # 5
@rebwana: it’s for like her siblings and stuff (who could also come out, they are partiers too). I guess the thing is more like I want to GO to her party so I want her to have it the next day. We want to see the out of town relatives too.
Fiance pointed out that we could go to this and then go out to the bars later. Going out at 10 is normal in our city so that would work too! what a smart guy!