(Closed) After the wedding

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

It all depends on how busy she is – did she live with her fiance before the wedding or are they just now moving in together? She’s probably still unpacking from the honeymoon and trying to get back into the swing of things – I wouldn’t worry too much about it. 

Just keep trying to contact her and let her know that you’re there to help out with her settling in if she needs it! Hopefully she’ll get back to you soon. 🙂

Post # 4
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2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I know for me, the several weeks following the wedding and honeymoon, we were crazy busy!! It was hard to get back into the swing of things, un pack, write thank you notes.  I wouldn’t take it personally.  She’s probably got a lot on her plate right now.

Post # 5
Member
1116 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

@Candy_Nee…same here. I had a hard time adjusting back to the swing of things after the wedding too. Lots of things went on in the weeks after I got back. Going back to work, writing all the thank you cards, drama with my BFF, my mom ended up in the hospital with pneumonia, and that led to just a general funk of REALITY after such a wonderful week and a half.

I definitely wouldn’t take it personally.

I like the suggestion of letting her know you’re there if she needs any help. You sound like a good friend.

Post # 6
Member
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I would definitely not take it personally. I am sure that if she wasn’t living with her husband before the wedding, she is already in the moving process, and if she already was, she is busy with family functions and just getting everything in order and squared away so they can start their lives together. I am sure she will come around soon, just give her a little time, and everything will be okay! See if she wants to meet you for lunch sometime within the next week so you two can catch up. 🙂

Post # 8
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2006

If she’s like me she’s running around changing her name on everything she owns, writing TY notes, figuring out what pics she wants, paying any vendors that were not paid before the wedding, etc.  And if she is moving they are probably working on consolidating stuff (we found out we owned 7 veggie peelers, 6 frying pans, etc when we finally moved in together — a lot of stuff went to Goodwill).  She’s not ignoring you, she’s “nesting”.

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