- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
This is kind of a depressing topic for me and it makes me worry a bit too. I know there’s other posts elsewhere, but I always get sidetracked when searching for them!
I keep trying to figure out what to do after the wedding. Every oncein awhile my SO will ask, “what are you gonna obsess over when we’re married?” he only asks because he knows how much time and energy I’ve put into our day, and he wants me to be this happy after.
We are both young; me 21, him 26; so kids aren’t really in the plans in the near future. We would like to move, but stressing myself over that isn’t exactly something I look forward to. Sure being somewhere else would be nice, but getting there makes me extremely anxious! (finding a new job, getting a home, packing… UGH!)
I’ve considered starting an Etsy account making real touch silk arrangements for weddings, but starting it would take a while and actually making money would take even longer. I enjoy the job I have now, but it isn’t honestly somethinf I wake up and scream with joy over. Just kind of an average American going through the notions of life. Sad.
I want to be a housewife and cook/bake all day, work in a beautiful garden, clean my beautiful house… but it will be a few years before we’re at that stage financially!
So what happens after? What did you do? Thanks for letting me be whiney for a minute (: