Post # 1
I love Sex and the City and I always think I have made up which I would choose…then I watch an episode where one of them is “perfect” and change my mind. So just for fun, if you were in Carrie’s situation who would you choose?
Post # 3
Neither. They both wanted her to be someone she wasn’t. I’d prefer Big over Aiden but I dont think either one of them is who she was truly meant to be with.
Post # 4
@KristenGotMarried: I guess I should add a “Neither” option! Thanks.
Post # 5
Aiden, but honestly I think he was way too good for Carrie.
Post # 6
Team Aiden here!
I loved Big’s character, but he needed to get a grip and figure himself out YEARS earlier 😉
Post # 7
Aiden all the way, but I agree, I think he was too good for her.
Loved Big and his character, but definitely not to date (or marry!)
Post # 8
@plantains: I agree!
I voted Aidan because he is who I’d want to be with out of any of Carrie’s loves – but I don’t think he was well-suited for Carrie. They were too different, and he wanted more of a traditional commitment (marriage) than she did. Neither of them should have had to compromise who they were, but they couldn’t be together without doing that.
Post # 9
Aiden. I always hated Big and never understood why she was with him!
Post # 10
Big!!!!! Aiden didn’t love her for who she was!!!
Big did love her for who she was but needed to figure his own crap out first!!!!
BIG ALL THE WAY!!!!!
Post # 11
Aiden for me but not for Carrie. I don’t think she deserves him. I’ve had a Big in my life so I understand the appeal but real-life Bigs are not the same. They don’t change.
Post # 12
@Ms Bookworm: I agree with this. I personally always liked Aidan the best, because he seemed to genuinely love Carrie and want what’s best for her. Big always seemed too self centered for my taste.
Post # 13
I loved Aidan, although I agree with others…He wasn’t right for her. I hated that she ended up with Big. It was like seeing your girlfriend go back to her shitty boyfriend time and time again.
Haha, I actually really liked Burger (besides the whole awful post-it break up!).
Post # 14
None of them. Her choice in men were severely lacking in my opinion. Blech.
Post # 15
I chose Aidan because I love him, but I agree that Carrie wasn’t good enough for him. Big treated Carrie like shit, but I don’t like her anyways haha.
Post # 16
I’m also a HUUUUGE fan of SATC. I still can get over Mr. Big leaving her at the alter Between Aidan and Mr. Big, I would’ve chosen the most commited one, Aidan.
I agree @NancyCP: real-life Bigs don’t change.