*Aggravated* TTC

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  This must be super frustrating. I don’t have any experience TTC, but *hugs* The only advice I can give is, focus more on the sex you want, and less on the babies. (I know that’s hard.) Maybe DH needs some… ummmm *stimulation* prior to the baby making? Of the oral variety?

Have you guys considered IVF?

Post # 4
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2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What a rotten situation!

 

Are you using OPK’s or charting? If you know when you’re ovulating, at least you could concentrate what sex you are having during that time.

🙁 I hope you get a BFP soon!

Post # 6
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534 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Your husband is only around one week out of the month and he’s not interested in sex during that one week?  That’s unusual.  Maybe you guys need to talk to a counselor.  It could be possible that he feels really stressed out and anxious about being gone so often and that’s affecting his sex drive.

Post # 8
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534 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  Wow, that’s awful.  I’m sorry, but I’m glad that you guys have a doctor involved.  Fingers crossed that things get better soon.

Also, my ex-husband was also uninterested in sex and I REALLY understand how much it can hurt the ego to be shot down when initiating sex.  Hope that you guys can keep the lines of communication open.  Many internet hugs sent your way!

Post # 9
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4440 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@sailor_girl:  I agree, while his T levels are super low, thats odd that the one week he’s home he isn’t interested at all.

Post # 10
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1535 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@SnaggedAgoodOne:  I understand what you are saying becuase my husband has low T as well.  What does his doctor say about his problem and TTC?  

Post # 11
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2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

do you guys still get around to having sex even when he’s not in the mood? is he able to ejaculate?

if he’s not responding to medication as hoped and completing the act is difficult, you may need to start thinking of other TTC methods. like… IUI. 

Post # 12
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Testoserone doesn’t drop sperm count, it eliminates it!!! It’s basically male birth control!!! Ugh! Stupid doctors!!! Same thing happened to my husband… He was on testosterone from October to february… We just finally conceived in September… It takes at least 3-4 months before sperm counts will regulate and even then you only have like a 20% chance of getting pregnant each cycle so please don’t give up!!

Our fertility clinic said that some testosterone patients respond well to clomid… Good luck!

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