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posted 1 year ago in Waiting
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    gocubbies       Illinois

    So after a nutty couple of weeks, we are back to feeling comfortable and normal.

    I was really starting to question our relationship and if I really wanted marriage... (see DreamingBee's post about the waiting stages.. I am definitely in the apathetic stage 3!) We had an amazing heart to heart last night and now I feel so postive and hopeful for our future. I also think he realizes I was seriosuly considering time apart, and he knows it's time to s%!& or get off the pot!!!!

    This morning he told me, we'll be married before you know it and one day you'll wake up and think, "why the hell did I want to get married so bad??"

    LOL.

    Then he also asked where I wanted to go on our honeymoon. (!!)

    It's been a long, long time since I've heard anything like that from him. It was refreshing to have the tables turned... I was so nonchalant and "oh whatever" about it, I think he was surprised. :)

     
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    desertgirl    March 24, 2012   Phoenix

    Wow, that's great!!  I'm hoping that will happen between me and my SO soon too.  I am definitely in stage 3 as well and maybe stage 4(that's where you go crazy. LOL!!).  I hope this means a ring for you soon!!

     
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    kolsen206    August 5, 2011   Seattle, WA

    i was totally like that too before we got engaged! and i kept pushing it to the point i think i was driving him away.

    but it all works out in the end. just be patient and try not to bring it up.

     
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    armychica06    December 8, 2012   CT

    Very nice- sounds like it is around the corner!

     
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    gocubbies       Illinois

    @desertgirl: LOL, yes I think there needs to be a stage 4 too... haha!

    @kolsen206: I am trying!! :) I have a post-it note on my desk at work and home. Everyday I don't say anything is a tally mark! It's a stupid rewards system but it is working, haha! I'm on day 8 right now.

    @armychica06: How are you doing on the V-Day challenge?!

     

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