Post # 1
So after a nutty couple of weeks, we are back to feeling comfortable and normal.
I was really starting to question our relationship and if I really wanted marriage… (see DreamingBee’s post about the waiting stages.. I am definitely in the apathetic stage 3!) We had an amazing heart to heart last night and now I feel so postive and hopeful for our future. I also think he realizes I was seriosuly considering time apart, and he knows it’s time to s%!& or get off the pot!!!!
This morning he told me, we’ll be married before you know it and one day you’ll wake up and think, “why the hell did I want to get married so bad??”
Then he also asked where I wanted to go on our honeymoon. (!!)
It’s been a long, long time since I’ve heard anything like that from him. It was refreshing to have the tables turned… I was so nonchalant and “oh whatever” about it, I think he was surprised. 🙂
Post # 3
Wow, that’s great!! I’m hoping that will happen between me and my SO soon too. I am definitely in stage 3 as well and maybe stage 4(that’s where you go crazy. LOL!!). I hope this means a ring for you soon!!
Post # 4
i was totally like that too before we got engaged! and i kept pushing it to the point i think i was driving him away.
but it all works out in the end. just be patient and try not to bring it up.
Post # 5
Very nice- sounds like it is around the corner!
Post # 6
@desertgirl: LOL, yes I think there needs to be a stage 4 too… haha!
@kolsen206: I am trying!! 🙂 I have a post-it note on my desk at work and home. Everyday I don’t say anything is a tally mark! It’s a stupid rewards system but it is working, haha! I’m on day 8 right now.
@armychica06: How are you doing on the V-Day challenge?!