Post # 1
I am at a lost right now. I have a family memeber in Texas who beged to be invited to my wedding and tried to bribe me with a nice gift. I love her she is family but she is nuts and always makes a scene. She is loud(like really loud like you could hear her from a block away kind of loud) and not it’s not a fun loud but like bitches about everything kind of loud. And she dresses like slob, she will spend shit loads of money going to vegas but will wear shits with holes in them. I just can’t trust that she will dress or act appropreatly at the wedding and that’s why i didn’t invite her. Now i find out that she is coming up for 3 weeks and will be staying with a family memeber…guess what she’ll be in town for my wedding. And the family memeber she is staying with is invited to the wedding. GRRRR…. and to top it off she is coming with some random teenager (mind you my family memeber is in her 50’s so not sure what the deal with that is) who I don’t know. So i have no idea what to do…I really didn’t want to invite her but i could have just gotten overr it and invited her but i’m sure as hell not inviting some random teen to my wedding. So I’m at a loss…Any ideas?
Post # 3
Tell her the venue has limited space and you finalized the guest count before you knew she could make it…. You’re keeping the wedding small, only people you know…. no one is getting +1… only people over a certian age are invited (above the teenagers age).
Post # 4
I think we all have a family member like that.lol.I would probably just invite them if you have the space and can afford it.Good luck with whatever you decide.
Post # 5
If you feel this strongly about her, I would call her & explain that you are sorry but due to numbers (& the short notice) you are unable to accomodate her. I woud also be having a chat to the family member who is invitng ppl on your behalf! All else fails…ask your Mother / father (which ever side of the family she is from) to explain. Hope all ends well!
Post # 6
LOL i think i am starting to lose my mind i can’t remember the month i’m getting married…she is coming the month after i’ll be gone for my honeymoon so i won’t even see her…sorry guys
Post # 7
@TankIsCute: Well….whew then! Glad it will work out with no hurt feelings. 🙂