(Closed) All bridesmaids dropped out… :(

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1231 posts
Bumble bee

Unfortunately that is the risk you take when you get married in one country and your friends and family are in another. Sorry your sad, but at least you will get to see them and celebrate with them when you go back to your country! At least your family will be there. 🙂

Post # 3
1962 posts
Buzzing bee

Why not have two weddings?  One at home and one back home.

Post # 4
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

HUGS to you. Chin up. I know its hard. but like Heather25 said, why not have two weddings. or tleast have a party when you get back, that way you can celebrate with your girlies.

Everything will be okay. Don’t worry and dont stress!

Post # 5
325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Why are you getting married there if all of your friends and family are where you are? If Fiance has lived in the same country as you are it seems to me that you would get married where you live?

Post # 6
46258 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sometimes when we are carried away with the excitement of wedding planning we lose touch with reality. Even our BF’s get carried away when asked to be in the wedding party.

Most people are lucky to be employed in this economy, much less flying across the world to attend a wedding. It is just not possible for many people. It doesn’t mean they love you any less.

I deplore this trend to communicate via facebook. People shoud at least have the courtesy to speak to you over the phone- not email- to deliver news like that. You should be able to receive that news in private and ahead of your “friends”.

Post # 7
5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

hm, that is a little weird they all declined at the same time via facebook…i’d be a little ticked off not that they can’t come, but the way they did it.  do you think they all spoke about this beforehand?  seems kinda fishy to me somehow…

Post # 9
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Why would you think twice about marrying him just b/c your friends couldn’t be in your wedding because of cost?

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