- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
So apparently everyone around me feels like my wedding is this big hassle they have to take part in.
This isn’t our first marriage and that maybe the reason why, but we both were married to the wrong people for the wrong reasons and are very excited and happy that we have found each other. I truley thought everyone else would be too. But as I get closer to my wedding it seems everyone just feels like it’s this big hassle for them.
Just a little back ground, I was married at the courthouse and my fiance was married in a big catholic ceremony. We both knew this wasn’t what we wanted and were determined to have the wedding of our dreams. So we are having it at a beautiful state park on the ocean and the reception at a historic restarurant we are not cutting back at all. Great food, music, open bar, limo etc, etc. The location is about 2-3 hours for most of our guest so we paid for a block of rooms for immediate family and the wedding party. No exspence has been spared (in my opionion at least). So I really don’t get all the bitching coming from everyone, from my mom complaining she has to get a new dress and pay for gas, to his grandmother saying we are taking up her whole weekend. My cousin actually replied “I should be able to make it I have nothing else going on” when I asked her if she was attending.
I just feel so alone, I am thinking we should just cancel the whole thing and fly to hawaii and get married there. Then no one has to take part. It would save allot of money, headaches and our kids (all 5) would love it. But we are 5 months aways and 8K in deposits already.
Should we cancel? Or is there anyway to make myself feel better and excited again about the wedding?