All the small things

posted 3 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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3371 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Pick your flower color and never think of it again.  Go basic with your decor, it does not need to be a smorgasbord of amazement.  Classic/timeless may be better for you than dripping in prisms and candles.  If you don’t want it, don’t do it.  If someone else is bugging you, tell them they’re free to take over (sarcastically).  Little details don’t matter unless you’ve neglected everything else.  No one will remember what color your napkins were or how nice the menu looked on a charger plate.  So don’t worry about it.

Post # 3
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83 posts
Worker bee

You got a maid of honor who knows you like the back of her hand (expression of course) or just someone in general who knows everything you’d like?

If they don’t mind doing it, you could probably ask them to just bulk all the little stuff for you and just give you a few options they thought you’d love and you can get all your stuff done super fast.

It helps a lot when you have someone who knows you so well because they know exactly what you like and it’s less stress for you and it kinda fun for them because they get to do their own mini version of wedding planning 🙂

Post # 4
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2034 posts
Buzzing bee

Find a cheap month of coordinater.  You can search who has discounts on the knot I think 

Post # 5
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374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

I don’t have any tips but I know how you feel! I was lying in bed thinking about all the little details I still need to work on and ended up just panicking and sobbing and waking up my FI at 1am lol. I think at the end of the day so long as you have good food, drink and music at the reception people will be happy! My issue is I want that pinterest wedding but I haven’t found the time to organise those details.

Post # 9
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2741 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I am having a smallish wedding 20-30 guests and found a vendor that pretty much does it all. I just chose what I want online with a click and the rest is in their hands.  I really didn’t want to stress over my wedding day or go into debt.

Post # 11
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1454 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I would agree on the month of coordinator. I was waking up in the middle of the night for the last couple/few weeks making to do lists of things we needed to get done and then plugging away at them during those final days. But having a coordinator helped immensely so that people weren’t asking me questions on the day of.

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