Post # 1
I wouldn’t say I talk about the wedding ALL the time, but I do love to talk about it. (what normal bride wouldn’t? we’re less than 7 months out!) but anyways…
i feel like i may talk about it a bit too much. even if it’s not all the time. and sometimes when i bring things up i feel that FH isnt interested at all. which is kind of understanable because “guys aren’t interested in those things” but then i get on WB and see posts of how peoples guys help them and ARE interested it really gets to me.
so heres the “solution”. im going to try and lay off wedding talk for a bit..then, in a month or so (if i can hold out that long) ill get back into the swing of things.
of course ill still check WB every day. but i wont actually talk about it. i also find myself saying “well on WB i saw this” or “on WB so and so did this”…i feel like i need AA for wedding planning!
i envy those of who who have tons of help and support from your FH.
mine is more along the lines of do what you want just tell me how much its costing..
any tips or advice to not be so into the planning..or is this normal- to an extent?
Post # 3
Set a timer for one hour. When the timer goes up, you have to stop oggling pictures of cakes and centerpieces, and go do some laundry or something.
Post # 4
Normal, don’t worry, it is so exciting to be on the process of planning a wedding, so anytime you need someone to talk about wedding, or anything, Im willing to listen or share ideas o any wedding related thing :), just a bride can understand how you feel. I m sure 🙂 How are you doing on your planning so far?
Post # 5
I feel that way too right now. I’ve been so focused on getting major things done… I feel that my whole life is now Wedding! I still have a year to go! I’m almost afraid that I’m going to get so involved in wedding stuff… I’m going to forget my life in other areas. I need a wedding AA group too…
Post # 6
jenbrandner wedding research for only 1 hour?!!? woo i dont know if i can do it! but that is probably exactly what i need! i checked WB today at work on break..and lunch..then my other break saw this then but my iphone doesnt let me respond…
but i will try that
divergirl we can all be each others support!