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posted 2 years ago in Babies
  • poll: If you have experienced this it turned out to be:
    Nothing, I waited it out and finally had my period : (47 votes)
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    I was pregnant, but was reading false negatives at first : (5 votes)
    9 %
    I had an undetected pregnancy that resulted in a miscarry : (1 votes)
    2 %
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    For the past seven months or so I have been keeping track of my little monthly visitor with an  app on my iTouch. Via keeping tabs I have found my period to be so regular, I started calling it "Old Faithful".  Since having this nifty little program I have learned about when I am fertile, when I ovulate, and when to expect my grumpy times (and when to warn my fiance Smile)

    Here's my problem... My period was due last week Wednesday, and now it's, well, this week Tuesday! Normally my P-M time includes breast tenderness (seriously, they feel like bricks), bloating, and a feeling of just heaviness. This time? Nada. Nothing. Zip.

    Now on a sidenote I have been pregnant before but lost the baby at five weeks. However, I was DEFINITELY pregnant. My chest was so painful and I had severe indigestion and discomfort. This time? Nothing. Zippo. I took two tests after my first few missed days and they both came up negative, but here I am still waiting... 

    Have any of you bees experienced this before? What was your outcome? Please get back to me I am going nuts wondering what is going on with my normally regular body.

    P.S. I have not changed my diet drastically or had any recent new stress in my life.

    HELP!

     
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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    I did not have this experience, but I just wanted to wish you good luck.  It sounds like you are hoping for it to be positive?

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Well I am ready to accept the situation whichever it is. We were hoping to be married before our first child, but if we were pregnant, we would be happy. I just wish I knew! Thanks for the well wishes!

     
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    July    August 13, 2011   Massachusetts

    the littles bit of stress can set my period back days/even a week or so. It could very easily be stress even if you are very regular.

     
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    babyboo      

    No real suggestions. If you are really worried I would go to the doctor and get a blood test done to ease your mind!

    I know you said you don't have and new stress/diet changes in your life, but like @July said, even the tiniest change in routine can set my schedule off!

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    I am going to take another test later this week for sure. Thanks for your inputs.

     
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    professorbee    8/8/09  

    Pregnancy tests measure the amount of hCG in your system, which increases each day early in pregnancy.  If you implant or ovulate late it can take awhile for your hCG levels to grow.  Some brands of pregnancy tests are more sensitive than others, meaning that they will give you a positive result at  a lower hCG level.  Consumer Reports rated First Response as the most accurate test.  I've read online that digital tests (those that actually say Pregnant or Not Pregnant) instead of displaying lines  are less sensitive, and women will not have a positive result with these tests as quickly (I can't verify the accuracy of that information, but wanted to share). 

    Also, please try to test first thing in the morning or when you have held your urine for at least 4 hours since hCG is more likely to be detected in concentrated urine.

    I had a period delayed by a week, and it just came late.  I know how scary that is, and hope that everything works out whichever way you are hoping for!

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Thanks for the good info Professorbee! I was intending to take a test that requires 20 parts of HCG instead of 50-100 like most.

     
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    ecoastrunner83    May 2009  

    You should try to think about anything stressful or unusual (traveling?) that might have happened the first 2 weeks after your period. Your ovulation date can be thrown off quite a bit from cycle to cycle, while the later phase is supposed to be about the same length every month.

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    I would say give it a couple more days, and then test again.  If you still have a negative but don't have your period I would call your doctor to get checked out, just to put your mind at ease.

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    I am going to buy another test if it doesn't come soon, I will update if anything changes! (ie: I get my period)

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    My sister had this happen. She didn't register on a urine preg test until she was around 4 months pregnant. So wierd!! They can def see if you are with a blood one tho. I would wait another week.

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I had this happen to me 3 times in my life where I didn't get my period for 2-3 months.  The doctor told me that this is fairly common for young women and that even the slightest bit of stress can alter your cycle.  She told me to wait it out and sure enough eventually it came back to normal.

     
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    alivoo01    September 18, 2010   Dallas, TX

    Change in workout plan? lifestyle change? I had the same scare this past month actually, and like you, it's old faithful for me. It came 1.5 weeks late so I was relieved! Hold out for a few more days? Let us know though! Good luck  to ya!

     
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    candicemcc    August 8, 2009   Houston

    If you've been charting, then you should know how long your luteal phase is (the high temps after ovulation).  From what I've read, that time period is usually pretty similar (+ or - a day or two) from cycle to cycle.  It's the time prior to ovulation that gets extended due to stress, etc.  Maybe reviewing that part of your chart will provide a little insight?  Good luck regardless!

     
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    Miss Apricot    May 30, 2009   Minnesota

    I had a friend (well, more of an aquaitance) who would have unprotected sex with random guys.  If she was then late AT ALL, she would start thinking about it that much more and it seemed like the stress of waiting/wondering just made her that much later.

    Take a nice, relaxing bath or something.  I've also heard that having sex can trigger a late period, although I don't know if there's any truth to this or not.  Bees???

     
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    mssushi    March 2009   Hershey, PA / Kaneohe, HI

    This happened to me about 2 months ago. I am extremely regular, so this totally caught me off guard. In the end, my period was late 10 days and right after that everything went back to normal; I got my next period 28 days later, ovulated at day 14, blah, blah, blah. I guess my body just took a break for 10 days.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    @Miss Apricot: I'm not sure if it's true or not but when I first started to have sex, my period was delayed and I wasn't pregnant.  Maybe the sex did it?

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    @Miss Apricot- I was going to try your last suggestion this evening... hehehe

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    I haven't had this happen before but I would love to know what app that is!?!

     
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    hedgeknits    August 28, 2010  

    I've had this happen before, and my period just showed up (however, I knew I couldn't be pregnant). Stress can definitely alter your cycle.

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    For those interested the app is called "free menstrual calendar" and it's by Tamtris web services. it has a corresponding website called fertlityfriend.com where you can track all sorts of info like temperature and cervical fluid. It's really simple and to the point and I use it every month! It's somewhat discreet and can be password protected. There is a pregnancy mode but it is recently out of whack due to their latest update. 

     
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    jaylii9    September 5, 2010  

    I also had this happen to me a month ago. I was tracking my old faithful for 6 months and then randomly it was a week late. I got my period eventually, but it made me nervous!

    Good luck!

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    Oh this was me last mth but we are TTC so it made me more excited but didn't happen. I think charting and thinking about it to much threw my normal schedule off. But this mth we have not really thought or stressed about it and it came back 28 days later, I did cry then but oh well. Funny thing is, maybe TMI but each time we had sex the night before and then bam, period the next day! Idk maybe it destressed me! Lol!

     
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    Firie    September 21, 2012   Australia

    I knew I was pregnant with my current pregnancy.  I knew my body and I knew I was pregnant.  However I kpet getting false negatives on pregnancy tests.  I kept thinking it must be in my head, the tests keep telling me I'm negative.  A week or so would go by and I still couldnt shake the feeling so I would have another one. and negative again.  In the end I was 9 weeks when I finally came up with a positive test.  I then went and bought the three most expenisve tests I could find and tested again.  Still Positive.  And I went to my Dr who sent me for an Ultra Sound which confirmed how far along I was.

    And try not to stress about it to much, as the it could delay your period further.  And if you are pregnant, then you don't need to chance the stress effecting you and the baby.

    These tests all come down to your hormone levels, and every pregnancy for every woman will always be different.  I wish you all the best.  My advice would be that if your are still concerned in a few days, considering your past history, go see a dr and seek their advice.  They can give you a blood test or send you for an ultra sound (athough at such an early stage you would probably have to have a vaginal ultrasound, been there done that, not at all pleasant).

    On a side note, a friend of mine miscarried many pregnancies until the Drs found out that her body did not produce enough hormones needed to take a baby to term.  Once they worked that out she had three baby boys with the help of hormone replacement therapy.  Probably not at all a problem you have, but maybe if your body is slow to produce hormones as well, it could explain why the tests haven't shown up early. (just a thought, I don't want to scare you).

    I send you hugs and positive thoughts.  And over the next few days just give a thought to seeking professional medical advice.

     

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    I had the opposite issue but early on after I went off the pill - one cycle was freakishly short (2 weeks) even though all the rest were a normal 28 days.  Our bodies def. sometimes have a mind of their own!  Try to get some exercise and try your best not to stress too much over what it all means - I know that is easier said than done!

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Thanks everyone for your support! I had a little bit of cramping this afternoon so maybe my period is going to show up any minute now! I will report if it does.... don't wanna keep you hanging!

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    any updates???  Ive been thinking about this since yesterday :)

     
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    ToasterCat    October 9, 2011   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Ok Ladies, Here's your update: I did finally end up getting my period and it was a DOOZY! The first day was like... ridiculous. Everything is (hopefully) back to normal now, thanks for your care and input ladies, this was kinda scary!

     
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    rlsulli1598@verizon.net       oregon

    Thanks for the update!  Been thinkin' about cha!

     

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