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I would say the first dress, or something similar. You don't need to be tall to wear a slim cut dress. Princess dresses do a great job of creating a waist, but they can be overwhelming if you're very petite.
Dress 1 makes you look much slimmer!
Question: Are you able to get a custom length hollow-to-hem done on this dress? My dress is all lace and it was available with that option...and it ends up costing less than having to have a seamstress painstakingly try to cut the lace. They adjust all the measurements on the lace to be proportionate to your exact height, so you wouldn't have to worry about hemming it once it comes in (you'd just have to do other alterations if it needs to be taken in, etc)
I typically like the A-line dresses but the first dress looks GORGEOUS on you! I'd go for that one. Looks very romantic.
Lone dissenter here. I think you look much better in the second dress. It does look to me,tho,that the second has either a crinoline under it making it too full. If its part of the dress,maybe they could remove some of it.
Both are nice,but I prefer #2 on you.
I prefer dress one - very elegant, flattering and romantic. Although I do like dress two (just like the first one more) Good luck!
I like dress 2, but then again I am one of those women that wants their fairytale wedding. Go with whichever you feel better in.
i like dress #1! the people at the bridal salon should be able to guide you about the alteration process. I think they would be fine with it, and possibly you would be able to order a dress in a smaller size than what you tried on a the shop? that might end up being closer to your actual size? congrats it looks great on you!
I prefer dress #1. Are you wearing your wedding shoes with #1? It really doesn't look to be that long if you're barefoot in the picture. I'm 5'4" and thin (104 lbs) and thought my dress would need major alterations, but I found shoes with over a 3" heel and my dress became perfect length-wise. And once the dress came in in my size I only needed minor alterations done to the sides and top. I know it can be overwhelming when you're petite and standing there in a size 7 gown or whatever with clips all over the place, but in your size it shouldn't need too much work. If you're really concerned talk to a seamstress about it and see what her opinion is.
Oh, and regarding the cleavage... you'd be surprised what a good bra and some padding can do for you! My seamstress sewed large pads directly into my bra and now I try to wear the bra with every dress I own because it gives me cleavage that I definately don't have naturally.
I ADORE the first dress!! You can alter anything if you find the right seamstress, I wouldn't worry about that too much!
I like the first dress. I think it's very flattering to your figure and beautiful. I'd talk to the seamstress/consultants about the alterations. Usually they can do a lot to alter dresses, and you can't be the only petite bride they've worked with.
I have to say that I do like dress #1 much better but #2 also looks awesome on you. It doesn't look overpowering on you at all.
I really like the first dress on you better. Talk to your seamstress to see how the alterations will affect the design of the dress.
i like the 1st dress better, it just seems to suit you better. can't wait to see what you decide on.
it also depends on your budget for alterations. i fyou have spoke to the seamstress and asked if they can alter the dress without taking too much of its character away from it go for #1. it is very flattering on your and if your budget allows it just do it. It's your day and your dress go with your gut.
While I prefer dress #1 based on its looks alone, I am joining the few other dissenters here and say that based on the pictures provided, you look better in the 2nd dress, but I'd be very interested in seeing a front pic of you in dress #1 to have a better view. I am in a similar situation as yours where I love a dress on a model but it doesn't look quite exactly the same on me (I am petite as well) and a lot of alterations would be needed. However, if the strapless dress is not your style don't get a strapless dress! Find another dress in that shape that's not strapeless that you like. To reilliterate, You still look very good in dress #1, I am just saying dress #2 (shape-wise) looks even more flattering on you. Dress #2 is so-so on its own (and I am a fuller-skirt kind of girl) but I do like the shape on you.
I know, it's easy for me to say. lol I am in the same dilemma so this is the best and honest opinion I can give you. Good luck!!! Keep us posted!
Oh, and I voted for keep shopping for another dress, as that's what I am doing, but while keeping the dress I really like in mind.
#1!!! You look gorgeous in both, but I love the way you look in #1; and if you aren't big fan of #2 (strapless), don't. You don't want to be concious of that on your day. :)
***I have dress number 1 and had it hemmed (though I'm 5'9). The dress is made in such a way that the seamstress can hem it from the top. That is, from that seam detail that runs through the middle of the skirt. The seamstress wouldn't have to touch the actual hem at all. (And also, the hem is appliqued on, so it can be cut and then resewn on to the skirt--but this is more spendy).
The real problem is the cleavage. How does it look on you? I am busty and the dress does a nice job of showing off my bustline. I'd want to see you from the front before I was sure about this.
And for the record, I don't like dress #2 at all. If you decide against the Allure dress, I bet you could find something more 'you' than that second dress!
I typically am not very fond of lace dresses but I dress #1 is beautiful.
1st dress. The folk who alter these dresses are amazing (if you take it to the right one). They can work magic on your dress, I've seen what these people can do first hand.
thanks for all the input! I really wish I could imagine what it's going to look like if the dress fits better! I am slightly short, but not that petite, can probably lose 10-15lbs before the wedding...wonder if that would help with making the dress look prettier on me.
Ok, I feel very self-conscious of this picture, but here it is...a picture of the front.
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I think you look stunning :) both dresses are gorgeous but I agree with the majority on this one!
Even tho you love the lace one,its not a very good sign if you already feel self conscious in it to people who don't know you. I'd hate to think you'd feel that way on your wedding day,knowing all eyes will be on you. Might be a sign you should look for something else that makes you excited and happy to be wearing it...and you want to wear every day! lol
Good Luck. I'm sure you'll make the right choice!
DRESS 1 DRESS 1 DRESS 1!!! Its beautifuk! Youll be amazed what these alteration people can do without runing a dress, trust me itll be fine and it looks gorgeous on you. Dont settle for another one bc it gives you a wait - that first dress is incredible!
Sorry, but I think you look gorgeous in the lace dress!!! I remember you posting before about your dress dilemma, and I immediately thought how gorgeous the first dress was! I love love love it...and having a great seamstress goes a long way!!!
thanks gals! I think it's a good sign that I keep coming back to this Allure dress despite of what my MOH and SIL tell me. I will go try it on one more time today before I make it mine.
I have an Allure gown and they are designed for taller women. You would have a very hard time getting alterations from somewhere other than the manufacturer. I am 5'8" and I still needed it hemmed! I special ordered mine through the manufacturer (takes 18 weeks - so ignore what the saoln tells you) for an extra $100 to hem the bottom. The bridal salon did not measure me correctly and I was stuck as I could not find a seamstress that could hem another inch off due to the intricate lace. I am also a size 36C and had a hard time filling out the bust as well. If you bought dress #1 you would need to pay quite a bit to get everything redone and pulled apart to fit you. If you absolutely love dress #1 I would order a knockoff to save some money that you'll pay in alterations.
I would go with the safe bet of dress #2 as it looks really pretty on you!! Good Luck!!
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I hate that I am soooo indecisive about this, but I am almost ready to commit to this dress.
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