- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So I’ve finally met a guy that I’m head over heels with. Yes Im young and there is plenty of time and other guys that could be that Mr. Right. Well I feel like I might as well be 32yrs old. lol. I’m 24 and I have a 4yrs son, not a loose stupid girl that got knocked up, just stupid first time got prego. Talking about a dramatic first. Was supposed to get married to this kid stayed together a year, moms clashed. Sooo ended. (You’ll come to see that mom sucks). well didn’t date for about 3yrs, dated this older guy, figured hey older, has his things together no stupid boy drama. Boy was i wrong. Lasted about a yr and 4mths, asked me over and over to marry him, didn’t feel right. He lived with me, I have myself together, working single mommy very well off. Ended up being all crazy breaking stuff blah blah blah. Well because I had eventually slept with him my mom wanted us to get married. Yah, supportive with this crazy guy. Um…no. So broke up, after deciding that I was going to stay single for a long long time. I met Matt. I’ve always kind of been the ok lets see what you got, um next kind of girl. Never really giving the guy the whole me. This guy was different, something about him, I’ve never felt. So much I do with and for him. So told my mom about this guy that I liked soo much. Pretty much said, oh it won’t last, I won’t believe it tell you guys actually are dating. Well it got to that point, and we clicked so well we decided to get married after 6mths. I tell her that I knew he was the one, I’ve been asked by 7 guys to get married. Marriage was the last thing I ever wanted. Him, Man I can’t wait to be his wife, he so awesome with my son, calls him is own, and has step up more then his real dad. Well in order to be together Im moving to Florida. Mothers loving words, You’ll be divorced and back. YEY! Well I’m still doing it. Now that the planning of the wedding has started…..Its been soo much better. I, like any normal girl was trying to involve my mother in deciding how to do this whole florida/california wedding. Decided that if I was moving up there in Dec that we would get married legal first then have or wedding in June. (alot of reasons for this) Well my mother told me that if I didnt have it in California she wasn’t going to be there. Awesome feeling of hurt. I have way less family that I would want to come. His is all there, supportive, can’t bring them all the Cali. Of course this now puts stress on me. I have no idea what to do. Can I really have my wedding with no familiar faces, no support with planning and celebrating? And to help take my moment away from me, my younger sister 17 just found out she’s prego. Yep with a one time deal guy. What hurts the most, mom is so supportive with that. talking about the baby shower, decorations, who’s invited, cake or cup cakes. Wow, she tells me to be supportive and help her out because I was once in her shoes. She asked me to look for obgyns, call around about insur. of course being the loving doing anything for my mom daughter I have. I haven’t or can’t even bring up my wedding plans. …….WELL THATS ALL I GOT, A VERY LONG ONE YES I KNOW, JUST NEEDED TO WRITE IT ALL OUT. HELP VENT A LITTLE BIT, AND MAYBE SOMEONE CAN HELP ME WITH SOME ADVICE.