(Closed) Alright you married bees, spill….. did you consummate?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you consummate on your wedding night?
    hells YEAH we did! : (120 votes)
    75 %
    made an effort but... no. (I know it happens!) : (10 votes)
    6 %
    passed out before we even thought about it. : (31 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes, we did. We planned a head and brought energy drinks  to the hotel haha. We had both heard about that percentage too and really didn’t want to add to it.

    Post # 4
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I didnt vote because I am not married yet but my FI and I tease that right after the ceremony, we are going to go up to the bridal sweet (has a locked door) and “consummate” a quickie before the reception haha.  

    Post # 5
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    386 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    We were exhausted and in pain and could barely move. And we still made it happen haha.

    Post # 6
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We did.. Twice actually. We were EXHAUSTED (left the reception around ten), but did it on the limo ride to the hotel then fell asleep (2 hr drive) then again once we got to our hotel. We had to get up at 6 the next morning to catch our flight but it was worth it! As tired as we were I’m so glad we did.

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride's residence

    We were really, really tired but Mr. D made it a priority. 😉

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    A couple of times:)

    We closed a bar at our “after party” and hung out with friends for alittle bit after, but there was no way it wasn’t going to happen.

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    It was the consummation Olympics!

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We did… or we consider that we did.

    Because for our day, we chose to do everything “backwards” to tradition. We had a first look and took our portraits & bridal party photos in the two hours before our wedding, we ended up greeting all our guests on the way in (like an informal receiving line), and we signed the register before the ceremony.

    And… we consummated our marriage the morning of. We wanted to be able to enjoy every inch of our party with no added stress. We had a wonderful, intimate morning; and then a wonderful wedding and didn’t get home until 3:30 am.. exhausted, giddy, aching feet, etc. My new husband helped me out of my dress, we touched and kissed, but were both happy to curl up in each others’ arms.

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We did.

    We were dead tired, but it was worth it.

    Post # 12
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    791 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Oh. My. Yes.

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

    Honestly, we did not think we would… We are party poopers and usually go to bed super early, so we just assumed we’d be too tired. We got back to the room around 3 AM and were dead tired, but looked at each other and were like, what the hell… It’s our WEDDING night! When will we get one of these again?! 😉

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    How horrible is it to admit that I don’t honestly remember… I wonder if DH has any idea.

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We got back to the room at around 2am, took a shower, and got down to business 🙂 

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Yup.  We were waiters, so I’m not sure anything would have stopped us!

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