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alternate term for "Maid of Honor"

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    christine92    August 28, 2010   NJ

    Hi Bees,

     

    I really am not comfortable with the term "Maid of Honor" and I'm struggling to coin a word or phrase that I like better.    I am thinking of using "Best Girl" in the wedding programs, keeping in line with "Best Man", but my MOH is my age (40), and "Girl" doesn't seem to sit well with me either.  

     

    Anyone else refer to their MOH by another name?  Suggestions welcome!

     
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    MrsH1010       Chicago, IL

    BFF? Partner in crime? Lady of Honor?

     
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    christine92    August 28, 2010   NJ

    indeed, she is my partner in crime, but i don't want to put that in print.  LOL

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    My MOH prefers Honor Attendant. I still use the acronym MOH here, but in real life I go with her preference.

     
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    lilybay    October 2, 2010  

    My MOH's official title is Best Woman!  I think that is used sometimes for when the groom has a female honor attendant, but I'm using it as "he gets a Best Man, I get a Best Woman."  I was her Best Woman when she got married, as well!!

     
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    rachel_leigh    May 15, 2010  

    I have seen people use Best Gal, Best Woman, and Honor Attendant and I think all of them work fine. 

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    i had a cousin use "women of distinction" instead of bridesmaids/MOH

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    lol. I call my MOH my "main b!%@#".... it's a term not for everyone, obviously. We both have a weird sense of humor.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    Best Woman

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    I'm not doing the MOH thing - so all my ladies are honor attendants.

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    @zippylef - i call my girls my "entourage" and "b(*#W^ in waiting" lol we have weird senses of humor too :)

     
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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    I like "Honor Attendant" best of all the previously given options. "Best Woman" is also sort of cute.

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I am using Lady of Honor for my attendants.

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    I like best lady or best woman. Just curious why dont you like Maid of Honor?

     
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    I used Best Lady, since I couldn't bear to call my best friend a "Matron."

     
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    ZoeKat    July 2010  

    FSIL's wedding had a best man and a best woman.

     
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    Missbliss      

    I like the term Honor Attendant too!  Rather than Matron of Honor... but being a Maid of honor is just fine with me... with the understanding that it's the shortened form of Maiden... 

     
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    christine92    August 28, 2010   NJ

    @vistagirl - I guess the term "Maid of Honor" is generic & traditional, and just doesn't suit her personality.  I am not having bridesmaids either because I'm just not into the whole bridesmaids-y entourage thing, but I am told that I need to have a "witness" so that's why I chose her.   I was a bridesmaid 3 times, and that was fun when I was 25.  I'm 40 now and getting married for the first time, and it  just doesn't seem necessary at this point.  I just want my close friends to come and have a good time, and not have to fuss with the formality of a bridal party.    My FI is also not having groomsmen, just a Best Man.  

    Thank you Bees for your input.  I will probably use "Best Woman".

     
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    Miso    September 25, 2010   Brooklyn, NY

    I'm considering "Best Friend" for mine.

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    One of my friends used the term "Head Bridesmaid" because she didn't like the term Maid of Honor.

     

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