Post # 1
Am 30 years old and still a virgin, just got engaged with my lovely guy that promised not to have sex with me untill our wedding night. Although he is not a virgin and has promised to wait till our wedding day. I used to tell him of my flat breast and he said he is ☺ķªª¥ with it but am afraid if he will like it when he see it cos he told me he likes sucking breast. Is ther anything I can do to make D̶̲̥̅̊ breast stand before we get married? Pls I need your advice
Post # 3
He will like them because he LOVES YOU! That being said, one thing guys love is confidence. It doesn’t matter if they are small or large, if you are comfortable with yourself and you show him that, he will be intrigued. Also try to look at them as beautiful and think about ways that you might like being touched. It will probably be awkward the first few times, but if you just let yourself relax, you will really enjoy it! Good luck with your upcoming wedding!
Post # 4
seriously, don’t worry about it! he won’t care. he’s marrying you for YOU, not for your boobs. i’m very very small on top and that doesn’t stop my fiance from going to town on them, lol. he always says he’s glad i don’t have huge boobs.
Post # 5
@jummywal: Guys like boobs, period. They don’t have to be big!
Post # 6
I am not a virgin, just a choice. Before we were together my Fiance always said a handfull was plenty but when he realized mine were a little less then a handfull he switched his saying to a mouthfull is as much as he needs. If your guy truely loves you, which he clearly does because he respects your decisions and wants to marry you, he will be happy with whatever he can get his hands or mouth on. Also your breast are not the only things on your body that he can play with and definatly are not the most important things in sex. He may like to suck a little but I’m sure there are other things he enjoys more, like sex itself. I promise you he will be happy with you 🙂
Post # 7
even if you are a virgin, he knows what your boobs are like. unless you are wearing three sweatshirts at all time, he knows what he’s getting into.
Post # 8
I’m sure he will love them, he loves you. That means he’ll even love them when you’re 80, even if they’re hanging to your knees. I agree that men love self confidence, and you have much to be confident about. Of all the women in the world, he chose to spend his life with you.
Post # 9
Just FYI – you might want to ask this kind of stuff under intimacy and not religion next time.
I used to be practically washboard flat. My mum even laughed at me and asked if Fi (then SO) was gay because I had no boobs, so I was like a boy. But Fi had no problems with it – if he loves you, then he loves all of you. Sex isn’t just about the pure physical aspect of it, but it becomes about the emotional intimacy shared between the two of you during that moment.
That being said – none of the guys I slept with before Fi had problems with my flat chest either – so even on a purely sexual/physical level guys are okay with small boobs. I feel like while a lot of guys like boobs – size isn’t the most important to them – a nice butt can be more important to them than boob size.