Post # 1
Is it obscene in planning the basics for my bachlorette party. My sis is supposed to be my Matron of Honour and she more or less knows my taste and me…but i jus wanna have a gr8 nite out (well at home) cuz my other Bridesmaid or Best Man (WILL BE THEIR FIRST) AND I AM KNOWN AS THE WILD HYPER (*SHY SMILE) ONE in the bunch (a positive thing bees 🙂 )
So i get anxiety attacks if i think someone is planning something for me..am i being pushy if i plan:
meal and gift bags and game prizes ?
Post # 3
I am having a hard time reading why you don’t trust your bridal party to plan your bachelorette party for you, but if they are hosting it on your behalf, it does seem pushy.
If you are hosting it and paying for it and all that good stuff, (which I think is totally acceptable), then that’s fine, plan whatever you want. But not if these girls are taking on the financial burden of your party; if that is the case, the most I would do is gift bags (paid for by you). I guess the bottom line is “don’t spend other people’s money for them”.
Post # 4
oh i trust them but i am a picky person. And i loved ur quote :don’t spend other people’s money for them”.