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am I allowed to wear white shoes to another wedding?

posted 1 year ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it okay to wear my white wedding heels as a guest to a wedding?
    Yes - wear whatever shoes you want (white or othewise) - it is summer! : (18 votes)
    78 %
    No - Only the bride wears white - this counts for everyone & their shoes : (0 votes)
    ehhh.. whatever, nobody will notice. : (5 votes)
    22 %
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    Rgeddy    June 13, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    I'm going to a wedding this weekend a month after mine.  I'll be wearing a grey dress - is it okay to wear my nice ivory heels from my wedding day to hers?

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Personally if I were in your shoes I would. But if you're having doubts about it I'd just double check with the bride. I plan on wearing the shoes I wore to my wedding to a friends wedding in Sept as they go well with the dress I plan to wear but they weren't white or ivory.

     
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    Joeswaffle    September 25, 2010   Southern Maine/Seacoast NH

    As long as you don't wear a white dress you are fine. No one should really be worried about you competeing with the bride based on your shoes.

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I think it's totally fine.  I couldn't tell you what shoes people wore on our wedding day :)   I think people only get iffy about others wearing white clothes/dresses to weddings.

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    I think you will be fine! No one will think that your white shoes makes you a bride :)

     

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