(Closed) Am I being a bridezilla??

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018 - The Desmond Hotel in Malvern, PA

I don’t think it’s unreasonable for you to want to know 2 weeks before the wedding what your MOH will be wearing! While you have mostly left up to her, it is still your wedding day and it should not be a surprise to you what she is wearing. You are NOT being a Bridezilla at all… maybe you just need to find a way to tell her in a heartfelt way that you have tried to be as flexible as possible (after all, most brides give their ‘maids a lot more direction or a specific dress to wear), but now that it’s getting down to the wire you’d like to know by X day what she’ll be wearing. Maybe offer to pay 1/2 if you think the $$ factor is holding her back?  I would just try your best to remain calm and sympathetic so she doesn’t feel like you’re being demanding or unreasonable.

In terms of the rock climbing and rafting, unfortunately I don’t think you can dictate to her what she can do before the wedding… I would be JUST as concerned as you are, but I think this might be the case where all you can say is "be safe!" and hope that she’ll be fine.

Good luck!

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