- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
So I have two cousins I’ve been pretty close with my whole life. I’ll call one K, who just turned 18, and the other T, who is around 19. I’m 21. We were pretty much best friends my whole life until I decided everything my parents taught me was cooky. To make a long story short I decided to move in with my now FI. K was, at this time, living with my parents and I thought that even though I did something no one in my family agreed with we would still be close. I was totally wrong because she has not been shy at all telling me how she thinks I am crazy for disobeying my parents and moving out. It’s just dumb because I know she could see how nuts my family is/was. She recently moved back to my hometown and she pretty much refuses to talk to me. She just keep posting pictures of our past.
Anyways, I cut my hair short two years ago. I love it, and will probably keep it short for a very long time. My FI is crazy about it. I did have super long hair before I cut it and it was beautful but it is still cute, and mature. My cousin however does not spare telling me every chance she gets how much she misses my short hair. I’l say I’m getting it trimmed and she’ll say “grow ittttt!” with the added uneccessary letters at the end. The other day she added a picture of me with long hair on Facebook. My friend said I love her hair long and my cousin said I agree. I’m just so tired of the comments. They know I’m not going to grow it out so why can’t they just grow up? So I said “Would you please stop telling me to grow my hair out? It was very pretty long but I love it short and feel more mature that way. I’m just tired of all the comments every time I mention its shortness.”
Am I being immature? I’m just sick of this. Feel free to tell me I’m being crazy.