- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
Im going to try and be unbiased as I write this. My Husband and I got in a heated argument this afternoon. To make this as quick and clear here are the key points:
-husband works nights, leaves around 3pm and gets home around 6am.
-I’m home alone being quite in the mornings and early afternoons till around 1:30-2:00pm when husband gets up. Then left alone for the rest of the day and night.
-I woke up my husband this afternoon at 2, he says to save time can I make him breakfast while he showers. And I do.
-while cooking is breakfast I go to the bathroom to ask of he would also like some
coffee and I find him playing a video game on his phone in the shower!
-this made me livid!!! I’m cooking his breakfast because he “didn’t have time” and he’s wasting time playing a game that he knows I hate.
-I’m hurt because I’m home alone all day and night working on my résumé and waiting for my license to come in the mail so I can work. And he can’t even spend 20 minutes before wwork with me.
-Hes upset because I got so mad…and he thinks I over reacted and that am trying to control him. And he thinks he deserves to play before working 14 hours,( which I understand) but plays the same game all night long at work!
-when he’s home I feel like I deserve his attention.
Am I being a bad wife and over reacting? He said I’m just being an attention whore, apick being nitpicky and nagging?
Please help I really dont know why I feel so sad and upset.