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We had big plans this weekend, or so I thought. For a month, this has been the planned Saturday to get stuff ready for our yard sale and get the gardens planted.

And what does SO do? Make other plans to go mushroom hunting with his buddy! Ok, I love mushroom hunting too, but he could have planned to go Sunday. He said it would only be a few hours. He didn't think the yard sale and gardening would take all day. REALLY?

I just feel second best, I feel like he didn't even think our plans were important when obviously I've been looking forward to it for a long time! Are boys just dumb or what?

So now he's telling me I'm being stupid for being upset, he's canceled his plans, but it still just hurts that I was pretty much put on the back burner when better plans came along.

Now he's giving me the silent treatment, yay.

@gocubbies: I do think it was inconsiderate of him to make plans when he knew you guys already had things planned for that day. I will say though that men really can be hard headed sometimes. They just don't think the way we do. this has happened in many instances with my SO and when I have flipped out (because ya know its like clear as day to me that what he did was inconsiderate to our plans) he kind of has looked at me like I have three heads because he really just did not mean to make me that upset. He flat out has told me that he just did not think it was going to be a big deal. 

Thank you :) You all are right I'm sure he just needed it spelled out for him. I went on assuming it was just as important to him (he loves his veggie garden), so I think it was just a miscommunication of what was actually happening that day.

I worked it up so big in my head and am soooo pumped about it and I guess I didn't really let him know that. I unfortunately assumed :/  Gah, it's just one of those "why can't you just GET IT" moments, haha.