- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
A little background. My FH has 2 adopted children they see there Mom once a week for 2 hours in a supervised visit. The visit’s are supervised by the state. It’s a weird situation. A long time ago he actually briefly dated the childrens mother then a few years later began doing foster care they just so happened to be his first foster children and have been with him almost 7 years now. So since he knew the kids mom he actually supervised the visits for awhile until I entered the picture almost 3 years ago. She is super crazy and for some reason HATES me. She started being super crazy and the state actually stopped the visits for a few months because it wasn’t healthy for the kids to see her. Now the state supervises the visits and under no circumstances is she allowed to see the kids without the case worker there. For some reason still not sure why my FH still allows her to call the kids on HIS phone. The kids have mental health issues so when she says certain things it sets them off that is why they are not allowed to speak to her or see her unsupervised. So today she calls them and he puts it on speaker she doesn’t know this. Immediatly she gets into saying things like “I’m renting Rango for our visit make sure (my name) doesn’t rent it first because she trys to be better then me. Also don’t eat I’m getting mexican I know (my name) fed you before you came last time because she knew I wanted to. Etc.” My FH never ended the conversation and let the kids continue to talk to her while she was saying rude things about me. I am actually a little offended. I really don’t think she needs to be calling at all! And this sounds bad but I have snooped before and seen he has had some few minute conversations with her when he was at work. Her kids were TAKEN away she legally is UNABLE to care for them. The state has even said she is toxic to there well being. Would this bother you? Would you be upset that he still lets her call? Also she can go threw the case worker to talk to the kids.