(Closed) Am I Being Unreasonable?

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It’s annoying that he bought the suit after you asked him not to, but he was coming from a good place. I wouldn’t stress too much about everyone coordinating, it’s pretty easy to do with suits. Just be happy that your guy found a suit he loves as much as you love your dress!  

Post # 4
9618 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

i think it will be fine 🙂 just think of it this way, did you consult him before purchasing your wedding dress? maybe he wants to surprise you on the day like you will be surprising him 🙂

Post # 5
687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

It’s gonna be okay, your Fiance had his best intentions with the purchase so you should be happy that he is doing his part! He should get the suit he wants for the wedding and to be honest, would you like your Fiance butting in with your wedding dress? 🙂 

You’re not getting married until next year so you’ll get this thing sorted out before you know it!  Good luck!

Post # 7
1217 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you two should be happy that he found a great deal! Suits are priceyyyyy, and $5 alterations is a total steal! I wouldn’t stress about finding an exact match for the groomsmen. I have seen TONS of pictures on wedding blogs of wedding parties where the groom wheres one shade of gray (either dark or light), and the groomsmen wear another shade (dark/light). It always looks fantastic, and I promise you that they blend together, especially if they wear the same color shoes and shirt and the same style of tie. They can also all wear matching boutonnieres. Don’t stress, and be happy he was looking out for a suit – a lot of bees have posted here that their FIs don’t take any interest in wedding details.

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