(Closed) Am I crazy?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I’m extremely indecisive when it comes to what I want. First I wanted a diamond, then an Asha, now I’m back to wanting a diamond. I think I’ve probably sent SO like 30 rings I want by now. You are by no means crazy and you aren’t alone 🙂

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You’ll always find a ring you’d love to have. Stop looking! Tongue Out haha

I actually knew exactly what I wanted from the start. Which is unusual for me, because in general I’m a very indecisive person. Hell, it took forever for me to decide between several pairs $15 sunglasses!! But for my ring, I just knew.

Post # 5
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I picked out some rings I liked online, then we went and looked at them and to see if there were other rings FI liked more, that I liked. When had no intention of buying the ring while out browsing, but it was the perfect ring, a prefect compromise of his preferred more tradtional and my preferred non-traditionsl, and it was on sale, and also happened to be the last one. So FI bought it.

Post # 6
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Someday_Mrs_Maguire:  Yup, I’ve done the same thing several times.

It’s gotten to the point where he isn’t buying/ordering anything without me present hahaha. That’s fine by me… I never wanted a surprise proposal or anything like that.

Post # 7
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568 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I couldn’t choose either! I loved twisted bands then this than that, but then I went to a store and tried on a halo, which I never really thought of and LOVED how it looked on me. Mine is being shipped as we speak and I can’t wait to get it!! Maybe try looking at different places. rings look different on your finger IMO.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I went through exactly the same thing, right down to the ring specs for moissanite and e-mailing him tonnes of links claiming every single one was The One. To be honest, I never truly decided. I forced myself to pick one and stick with it. I still lust after other rings, but since getting my engagement ring, it’s become MY engagement ring and that is what makes me love it more than all the others. Buuut, no one says I can’t have a nice halo for a right hand ring some day…

I suggest you tell him that you’re giving yourself such-and-such time to decide amongst all the ones you have narrowed down, and then maybe tell him you’ll give him a shortlist of, say, three that he can choose from? That way your decision is eased somewhat, you will still end up with something you like AND it will be a surprise(ish)!

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