Am I crazy??

posted 3 years ago in Vow Renewals
  • poll: Should I have a vow renewal/Do over
    Yes : (7 votes)
    28 %
    No : (18 votes)
    72 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    42546 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @LilMrsSunshine35:  To each his own. I wouldn’t spend my money on another wedding because other things are more important to me, but you have to do what’s right for you.

    Post # 4
    Member
    871 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @LilMrsSunshine35:  That sounds perfectly reasonable to me! Good luck and remember to make it about you and your DH and don’t let anyone else boss you around!! 

    Post # 6
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    6510 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I don’t think you’re wrong for wanting it, but I don’t think I would do it. I already look back and cringe at the amount of money and time that went into my wedding and I would never do that again. To each his own though!

    Post # 7
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    2116 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @LilMrsSunshine35:  I think doing it for a 5 year anniversary is a little soon BUT your wedding day should be something you look back on with fond memories. At this point you have tried it twice, so you would need to spend money on making sure everything goes smoothly ex: having professional caterers and decorators, not family members who left you high and dry.

    If you can afford it, why not?

    Post # 8
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    253 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @LilMrsSunshine35:  Take that money and you and your DH have a dream vacation with it. Make other beautiful memories no one can ruin for you.

    Post # 9
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    7997 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I don’t think you’re wrong or crazy, but I don’t quite get why you’d want another do-over unless you have unlimited funds.

    You had two weddings already… do you really like getting married that much? Lol. Like what’s to prevent something similar from happening again? Is there really nothing better you’d want to spend your money on? New car? Vacation? Cottage?

    I dunno. I’m not even excited about my upcoming wedding… I want to be married but I could do without the ceremony and so on (and we’re doing something super small). To each her own, I guess.

    Post # 10
    Member
    7098 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’d take a nice luxury vacation and renew vows with just the two of you.

    Post # 11
    Member
    842 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    @BelleriverBride:  I totally agree.

    @LilMrsSunshine35:  Take that money and go on a vacation that tops all vacations. Just the 2 of you. That way, no one else can ruin it. Besides, how many guests would you really have at your 3rd wedding in 5 years?

    Post # 12
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    1568 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I aggree with PPs I think you should take that money and go on an amazing vacation and maybe renew your vows. Don’t invite anyone and make those your new memories.

    Post # 13
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    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’d take an INCREDIBLE luxurious vow renewal vacation with just you, DH, and your kids!

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