(Closed) Am I crazy? Or is it too soon?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5169 posts
Bee Keeper

It is never too soon for love 🙂 I had a friend break off a 5 year relationship with her fiance and meet a new guy at work a couple of weeks later and they are still together and in love to this day. Trust your brain but follow your heart.

Post # 4
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Fi and I met online and knew before we even met that it was just right. We have never been apart longer than one day since the day we met and are getting married next year. Follow your heart, not what everyone else tell you. You know you better than anyone!

Post # 5
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think that feeling you speak of is something we all look for!  I had it with my Fiance and still do actually.  It’s pretty awesome.  🙂  Explore it!

Post # 6
1664 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think you should be adventurous and find explore that feeling! I do think it’s a good idea for him to stay at a hotel while he’s visiting though.

Post # 7
2894 posts
Sugar bee

Hey. If it’s his idea to make his way over for a mini vacation for himself, I see no problem in meeting him. Be careful. Be smart. Make sure people know where you are and who you’re with. But it’s not like you’re moving across the country to live with him. It’s one visit. Live a little…safely. 🙂 Personally, I’d make sure he doesn’t think you owe him something. This trip needs to be for him with you as the frosting. You don’t want to be indebted to a stranger. Other than that, I think there’s nothing wrong with exploring this if it’s right.

Post # 8
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

besides all the crazy serial killer stuff (it was my first thought, i apologize, i watch wayyy too much dateline)

i say go for it – you guys have been talking long enough to know a little bit about each other i hope. i think you would always think what if – if you didnt give it a shot ya know?

I agree that its never too soon for love – i met my husband while i was dating my last boyfriend- my husband worked with my sister. i would meet them for lunch every now and then and he was new to town and def caught my eye but i was a good girlfriend and really loved my ex boyfriend (we dated for 2+ years and talked marriage, i really thought he was the one for me) long story short ex boyfriend breaks up with me. i was devestated but i think w e both knew it was over before it actually was anyway…me being single and lonely and hubby being new in town we started hanging out and about a month later i was “talking” to my future husband. we got engaged a year and half later..the world works in mysterious ways.

Post # 9
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Love can find you at the weirdest of times. I was in a long term realationship with my highschool sweetheart. Things weren’t going to well. After 2 1/2 years we broke it off. It was about a month after i went out with some g.f’s and was introduced to my future hubby. We have been together 4 years now and i couldn’t be happier.

Post # 10
4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It’s too soon to declare your love yes. Is it too soon to explore no.

Post # 12
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

@Keely_doll: I don’t think it’s a bad idea to explore and see where things go! If you go out with him while he’s there and don’t get a good vibe after that, then it’s good that he’s across the country. But it definitely wouldn’t hurt to see!

Post # 13
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

The first time I met Darling Husband I knew in my heart of hearts he was someone that had to be in my life and I was devastated when we parted ways (we met in an elevator) and he didn’t even ask for my number. I met him again a couple of months later thanks to a mutual neighbour and I knew that was it. Unfortunately I was going away for the summer, but I knew inside that it was my last “single” summer and that when I came home I’d be back together with him and that would be that. I can’t explain it, I just knew. I can still remember the first time I laid eyes on him.

I think you should be open to it. Nothing ventured nothing gained right? He may not end up being the love of your life, but he could end up being someone you learn a lot from and that in itself is a valuable experience!

Post # 14
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I think that, as long as you’re safe and smart about it, there’s no harm in exploring.

Just use common sense. 

Post # 15
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I was in a 3 year relationship, we were discussing marriage and I was looking into things but we weren’t engaged, and then we broke up cuz he cheated on me.  Hubs had been in a 4 year relationship, and they broke up cuz she had cheated on him.  We ran into each other about 3 months later, and have been together ever since, and had known each other for about 10 years prior. I never in a million years would have thought we would have ended up together, but I honestly can’t see myself with anyone other than him. I say, go for it!! You don’t want to think about what if for the rest of your life if you don’t…

The topic ‘Am I crazy? Or is it too soon?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors